Cannonball Read 11

Sticking it to Cancer One Book at a Time

Search This Site

  • Home
  • About
    • About CBR
    • Getting Started
    • FAQ
    • #CannonBookClub
    • Fan Mail
    • AlabamaPink
    • Book Bingo Reading Challenge
  • Team
    • The CBR Team
    • Leaderboard
    • Recent Comments
    • CBR Interviews
    • Our Volunteers
    • Meet MsWas
  • Genres
    • Review Genres
    • Tags
  • Fight Cancer
    • How We Fight Cancer
    • How You Can Donate
    • CBR Merchandise
    • Supporters and Friends of CBR
  • Contact
    • Contact Form
    • Newsletter Sign Up
    • Newsletter Archive
    • Follow Us

Turns out, we all do need a little romance in our lives

The Hating Game by Sally Thorne

December 9, 2016 by ingres77 10 Comments

25883848

The most books I had ever read in a year, prior to 2016, was about 35 – back when I was in high school and had no social life to speak of. I set a goal this year of 52, thinking that perfectly within reach considering my output last year (29). Well, here I am writing my 104th review. 104, you guys. I’ve written over 52,000 words describing my reading exploits this year – and that is neither an exaggeration nor an estimate. This is insane.

The downside to this, however, is that I don’t remember so many of the books I’ve read. The upside to this is that I just re-read some of my reviews and realized I sometimes have more fun writing the review than I did reading the book.

This book, much as I liked it, kind of falls into the former camp. It’s already become hazy, and I only finished it a couple days ago. Much of what I wanted to say has already slipped through my fingers. A year from now, I probably won’t even remember this book. That’s kind of sad, because it shouldn’t be seen as a reflection of the book so much as it is a consequence of me jumping from one book to another without giving each the time needed to breath and have an impact. On balance, I think I’m benefiting more from all this reading than I am suffering, but it’s not without its drawbacks.

Anyway. About The Hating Game…

I shouldn’t like this book. But i do. It shouldn’t speak to me. But it does. Sally Thorne hits all the same points as Colleen Hoover and Lucy Parker, but they are so much more effective, here.

As a falling action, love is so much more captivating than it is as a normalized state of being. The act of falling is both thrilling and invigorating. You’re filled with the promise of discovery and the certainty that your life is on the up-swing. Being being in love, the daily grind of it, can be both infinitely more rewarding and a pale imitation of that early stage of hedonism. I think this dichotomy is why I struggle with the romance genre. I enjoy falling in love – I mean, who doesn’t? But love as a state of being is deeper and more relevant to me than the fresh promise of newly discovered passion.

So Act Like It, while entertaining in its way, was ultimately unsatisfying and a bit tepid.

The Hating Game is certainly heavily reliant upon the two principle characters falling in love (ugh, spoiler?), but you spend a lot more time with them after they make the connection. There were numerous points in this book where Thorne almost lost me. Moments when I started looking at the next book in my queue and wondering how long I wanted to stay in this world, and then she’d throw in a little character flourish or exchange between Lucy and Josh that would pull me back in.

There is more, here, than a steamy affair between two attractive people. Lucy felt like a real person, even when Josh sometimes felt like an archetype. While I did find her to be fairly dumb (I mean, really? She was that clueless about how he felt about her?), but she was likable, and I actually bought that they went from hating one another to loving each other. Not that I’ve ever known a relationship to morph so extremely, the path it took wasn’t a complete farce.

But where this book really shines in the first, I don’t know, quarter of the book. Lucy has built this game in her mind between her and Josh. They stare at one another, they make rude and insulting comments, they’re playing a constant game of one-upmanship (turns out, that’s how you spell that – I Googled it, having no idea how to actually write that phrase out. Weirdest diversion of the night, right there). I could literally read an entire book of Lucy and Josh hating each other. It was that delightful. There were moments of me actually laughing out loud, and quite a few more of me smiling quietly to myself. These moments were enough for me to be interested in other books by Thorne.

I know a lot of you have read this book already, and for those who haven’t, I strongly suggest that you pick it up. It really is as worth your time as everyone says. Take that from someone who doesn’t even like these kinds of books.

I should probably give it 3.5 stars (because it just doesn’t “feel” like a 4 star book, even though I enjoyed it), but it’s my double Cannonball, so I’m feeling generous.


Reviewed 11 times with an average rating of 4.55 stars. Not too bad considering it wasn’t “discovered” until baxlala wrote the first review on August 19 (though Malin seems to have actually brought it to our attention first)

Filed Under: Fiction, Romance Tagged With: double cannonball, sally thorne, The Hating Game

Share the post "Turns out, we all do need a little romance in our lives"

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Google+
  • E-mail
  • Tumblr
  • Reddit
12/9/2016 | Post by ingres77
Rating:
| Tags: double cannonball, sally thorne, The Hating Game | Category: Fiction, Romance | 10 Comments

ingres77

I've been doing this since 2015, and though I'm not going to read a hundred books a year, I plan on doing this for the foreseeable future. I also maintain the Cannonball Read database, and make infrequent updates on our reading habits.

CBR11 participantCBR10 participantCBR  9CBR 8CBR 7CBR 6

Recent Reviews:

  • If only we had started tackling climate change 60 years ago
  • As good as this book was, I spent the whole time wanting to read something else.
  • Absolute perfection
  • View all reviews by ingres77»

Comments

  1. Beth Ellen says

    December 9, 2016 at 7:56 am

    Congrats Congrats! I know it’s not your genre, but what a great book to double Cannonball with! I’m so glad you enjoyed it.

    Reply
    • ingres77 says

      December 12, 2016 at 8:49 pm

      Thanks! I saved this specifically for my double.

      Reply
  2. narfna says

    December 9, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Yay!!!! Happy double, and I’m glad you liked this.

    Reply
    • ingres77 says

      December 12, 2016 at 8:50 pm

      Thanks!

      Reply
  3. faintingviolet says

    December 9, 2016 at 11:36 am

    Happy Double!!

    I douibled last year, and much of what you say up top I can agree with. There are so many books that I am only faintly aware of even now, but there are also some magnificent books which I have discovered and read since ramping up my voraciousness that I simply wouldn’t have found without the Cannonball. I intentionally slowed down a bit this year, and am on pace to read 85 this year, but that will still be my second most read year ever.
    And congrats for reading outside of your comfort zone, its such a tough thing to do.

    Reply
    • ingres77 says

      December 12, 2016 at 8:57 pm

      Yeah, I think I’ll read some longer books next year. I’ve been pretty slack when it comes to history, and those typically take a bit more time to go through.

      Reply
  4. Malin says

    December 9, 2016 at 12:44 pm

    Happy double Cannonball! You’ve read and reviewed 104 books AND you’re doing an amazing job with all our stats. That’s such good work.

    I’m also incredibly happy that you liked the book and that maybe, possibly, it will make you consider reading more romance at some later date. I agree completely that this is a better book than Act Like It.

    Reply
    • ingres77 says

      December 12, 2016 at 9:01 pm

      Keeping up with the database is part of why I’ve read so much, I think. I’m not only seeing everything we have read, but all the stuff we havent6, which makes me want to go back and read some of my favorites just so they’ll make it into the database.

      That’s probably weird.

      I’ve still got a Courtney Milan book in the pipeline that I’ll probably read next year. My tastes are so narrowly defined, though. There just needs to be more Rainbow Rowell.

      Reply
  5. emmalita says

    December 9, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    Congrats on both your double Cannonball and thoughtful review.

    Reply
    • ingres77 says

      December 12, 2016 at 9:01 pm

      Thanks!

      Reply

Leave a Reply to ingres77 Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.



Cannonball Read is an annual, memorial book challenge to read and review 52 books in a year. Or 26. Or 13. Choose your level and read to meet your goal all while fundraising for the American Cancer Society in the memory of AlabamaPink. Registration Now Open!

Recent Comments

  • emmalita on A Book Exchange Extravaganza From Bothari43My blushes!
  • faintingviolet on A Book Exchange Extravaganza From Bothari43Yay! She was SUPER excited when she found out she had you :)
  • emmalita on A Book Exchange Extravaganza From Bothari43Right? I love it
  • narfna on Thank you, narfna!You're very welcome! I'm so glad you hadn't read either of them yet. And please do review them! I really want to know what you...
  • narfna on A Book Exchange Extravaganza From Bothari43I love that cephalopod print!
See More Recent Comments »

Follow Us

CBR Facebook Page. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. CBR on Goodreads CBR on Pinterest.

Support CBR

Give Today. Cannonball Read donates all profits from the site to the American Cancer Society. Help us fight cancer!
Donate Today »

Review Genres

  • Biography/Memoir
  • Book Club
  • Children's
  • Comedy/Humor
  • Cooking/Food
  • Fantasy
  • Fiction
  • Graphic Novel/Comic
  • Health
  • History
  • Horror
  • Mystery
  • News from MsWas
  • Non-Fiction
  • Poetry
  • Religion
  • Romance
  • Science Fiction
  • Short Stories
  • Speculative Fiction
  • Sports
  • Suspense
  • Uncategorized
  • Western
  • Young Adult
  • Z-ADMIN-ONLY-FAQ-BASICS
  • Z-ADMIN-ONLY-FAQ-BOOKS

Book Ratings


a favorite


a great book


a good book


an ok book


a book
you didn't like

Need Help?

Visit our FAQs to find out how to add stars, select genres, and more. Drop us a line if you can't find your answer.

Shop on Amazon and Support CBR

One of CBR11's #CannonBookClubs will be about Good Omens: The Nice and Accurate Prophecies of Agnes Nutter, Witch by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett to coincide with the BBC Miniseries.
Buy it on Amazon today, get a head start, and help us stick it to cancer, one book at a time!

Shop on Amazon and Support CBR

Buy Original Cannonballer Prisco's book and help CBR!

Ad Partner

© 2019 Cannonball Read | Log in